Characteristics of the Social Visit:
- Discusses external events: weather, world or local events
- Maintains a congenial atmosphere at all times
- Comforts through avoidance of stressful subjects
- Shares stories and mutual experiences
- Is pleasant and positive
- Ignores negative feelings
- Is helpful by entertaining
- Discusses people “in general”
Characteristics of the Pastoral Visit:
- Concentrates on the person, their feelings, life experiences and problems
- Accepts painful feelings and tension areas
- Comforts through facing trials and difficult times in faith
- Helps the person share him/herself
- Establishes an understanding and empathetic environment
- Promotes a deeper, feeling level.
- Explores the relationship with God
- Examines other significant personal relationships
